Have you ever wanted to slow down and simplify your life? In an age of technology that demands so much of our attention and time the question begs to be asked: Do we really need to be hooked up to our smartphones, tablets, and computers 24/7?
It is no small feat that in only 15 years (roughly) we have so drastically changed in our level of connection via technology (the advent of the smartphone helped foster this) and the lack of connection in real life.
There is even a term for the stress people experience from spending too much time on social networking sites as they imagine that they are not living it up like their friends are…it’s called FOMO (fear of missing out).
Computers, smartphones, and tablets all have there place in our lives since we inescapably live in an age of technology. And yet, we must strive to unplug ourselves from our devices and enjoy the day we are living: play with our pets or kids instead of ignoring them so we can play/work on our devices, actually enjoying a sunset/sunrise/nature instead of just taking pictures on our phones to share online, going to live concerts/musical performances and leaving the phone turned off the entire time.
Living a life that is green & balanced includes seeking spiritual and mental balance. Living the simple green life simply means to enjoy the day you are living in some small way. Basically, stop and smell the roses, pet the puppy, laugh at a joke, and for pete’s sake turn off that smartphone when someone is talking to you! This is better for your mental health as well as your relationships/friendships.
Below is a pineapple I drew in an art class. Art class is a great place to get in “the zone” as it allows you to escape the endless left-bran chatter (something that the techno-stress of 24/7 smartphone/device connection usually promotes). I was a lot less anxious while I was in art class, this was something I noticed right away.
So here are my tips for simplifying your day, at least in a small way:
- Turn off your smartphone when you are eating or having coffee/tea with your family/friends. Give them your full attention.
- Go out and do a fun activity (hike, bike, power walk, attend a concert/musical performance, a scenic drive with a loved one/friend, etc) and do NOT post it to your Instagram/Twitter/Facebook/etc. At the least resist the temptation to post it until the day after you do your fun activity.
- Take up a new activity (such as volunteering at a soup kitchen, attending an evening college class, learning a musical instrument, learning to draw or paint, or running a marathon) that will take too much attention/focus to even allow you to take out your smartphone or check your computer.
- Read a book, write a story (by hand in a notebook and not on the computer, at least initially), or learn to cook/bake something. Basically #3 & 4 encompass the idea that you should find something you’ve always wanted to do and do that instead of being connected to technology 24/7.
What are some of your suggestions for getting away from your computer/tablet/smartphone? What is your idea of the simple green life? What do you do to escape techno-stress and combat the fear of missing out?